The Blame Game.

Well it has been about 5 weeks since I started writing this blog, I have said many things and one thing I wante to clear up is who do I really blame my depression on? Who do I spite when it comes to the blame for my current misfortunes. Was it the fault of one person or many of them colluding to throw me into the middle of this storm?

I don’t really think this question has a direct answer. Unfortunately. Like most things, this also has a curvy, merry-go-round type of answer.

I don’t exactly blame a person for my depression, this was not caused by anyone, nor does it have a straight forward group of people to be blamed for my problems. It was more of my mind to running out of control. The only person I can really blame for it is myself. I didn’t stop when I should have, I didn’t understand the concept of mental limits to a thought and when we should stop thinking about something rather than just ruminate over it trying to find a good reason as to why I suffered what I did. Now that I understand I don’t really grasp the concept totally yet but I am still trying to work towards it, hopefully I can regain control of the reigns of my mind and not let them run free again like the dog of hell that it has been for me so far.

Our mind is a devilous thing, if allowed to run free, it can destroy you as a whole from within, it can leave you a dysfunctional mess. When it comes to people, again, as I have said I wouldn’t say that this or that caused my depression, but I was put through many situations at once, which maybe I was unable to handle and which lead to my mind running amok and eventually my depression. Even when I was depressed when I did ask for help from people, their reactions didn’t really help, again I am not saying they were the cause, people just did not help when they could have, when my problem could have been cut off in its budding stage, which is again something that I cannot blame them for, they were mostly busy with other stuff, had different priorities and all in all just could not understand the gravity of the situation.

So to all the people out there, I will just say this, keep your minds under your control, don’t let it go, it will be disastrous for you and those around you. A mind is powerful, we know it works from the day it is formed in our mother’s womb to the day we die, A mind can make you look at stuff that is not true to be the reality, it can show you stuff that is a fairy tale to be true aswell. Our minds are always quick, keep them intact and you will face little problem in your life.

“We are shaped by our thoughts and our mind, we become what we think.”

4 Replies to “The Blame Game.”

  1. You are very right .We are wonderful creations of God whose ability is go for your wishe and you will get .

  2. What is Subconscious mind ?
    You have a mind, and you should learn how to use it. There are two levels
    of your mind – the conscious or rational level, and the subconscious or irrational level.
    You think with your conscious mind, and whatever you habitually think sinks down into your subconscious mind, which creates according to the nature of your thoughts.
    Your subconscious mind is the seat of your emotions and is the creative mind. If you think good, good will follow, if you think evil, evil will follow.
    This is the way your mind works.The main point to remember is once the subconscious mind accepts an idea, it begins to execute it. It is an interesting and subtle truth that the law of the subconscious mind works for good and bad ideas alike. This law, when applied in a negative way, is the cause of failure, frustration and unhappiness.
    However, when your habitual thinking is harmonious and constructive, you experience perfect health, success and prosperity.
    Peace of mind and a healthy body are inevitable when you begin to think and feel in the right way.
    Whatever you claim mentally and feel as true,
    your subconscious mind will accept and bring forth into your experience.
    The only thing necessary for you to do is to get your conscious mind to
    accept your idea, and the law of your own subconscious mind will bring forth the health, peace or position you desire.
    You give the command or decree, and your subconscious will faithfully reproduce the idea impressedupon it.

    The law of your mind is this: You will get a reaction or response
    from your subconscious mind according to the nature of the thought or
    idea you hold in your conscious mind.
    Psychologists and psychiatrists point out that when thoughts are conveyed to your subconscious mind, impressions are made in the brain cells.As soon as your subconscious accepts any idea, it proceeds to put it into effect immediately.

    It works by association of ideas and uses every bit of
    knowledge that you have gathered in your lifetime to bring about its pur-
    pose. It draws on the infinite power, energy and wisdom within you. It lines up all the laws of nature to get its way.
    Sometimes it seems to bring about an immediate solution to your difficulties, but at other times it may
    take days, weeks, or longer.

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